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KNOW
THE RULES...
ABDUCTION and KIDNAPPING
Prevention Tips for Parents Prevention
Tips for Parents
Recent crimes against children, although a rare occurrence,
have left many parents frightened and unsure about how best to protect their
children. According to a study conducted by the Washington State Attorney
Generals Office for the U.S. Department of Justices Office of
Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention, in 57 percent of the cases,
the victims of child-abduction murder are victims of opportunity.1
As parents search for ways to keep their children safer,
it is worth noting that reducing the opportunities for abduction will help
prevent those occurrences. The rules that many adults lived with in their
childhood no longer apply in today's world. Parents should know where their
children are with, and not let their children go places alone.
Parents should openly answer their children's questions
about their safety. "Parents should also look for opportunities to
include their children in their safety plan," stated Nancy A. McBride,
the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children's director of prevention
education. "Parents can practice 'what-if' scenarios with their children,
and they can include them in securing their home. These steps will help
empower the child and reinforce the safety message."
The tips noted below will help parents lessen the opportunity
for abduction and kidnapping and better safeguard their children.
- Teach your children to run away from
danger, never towards it. Danger is anyone
or anything that invades their personal space. Teach them to yell loudly.
Their safety is more important than being polite. Teach your children
that if they are ever followed in a car to turn around and run in the
other direction to you or a trusted adult.
- Never let your children go
places alone, and always supervise your young children or make
sure there is a trusted adult present to supervise them if you cannot.
Make sure your older children always take a friend when they go somewhere.
- Know where and with whom your
children are at all times. Remind children never to take
anything or respond in any way if approached by someone they dont
know. Teach them to run away as quickly as they can to you or a trusted
adult.
- Talk openly to your children
about safety and encourage them to tell you or a trusted
adult if anyone or anything makes them feel frightened, confused, or uncomfortable.
Discuss security issues with your children so that they will understand
the need for precautions. Advise your older children about steps they
can take to help safeguard themselves. Know your childrens friends
and their families. Pay attention to your children and listen to them.
If you dont, theres always someone else who will.
- Practice what you teach
by creating what if scenarios with your children
to make sure they understand the safety message and can use it in a real
situation.
- Consider installing an alarm
system in your home with a monitoring feature. Make sure
your home is secured with deadbolt locks, and ensure that landscaping
around it doesnt provide places for people to hide. Check other
access points, suchas gates, and make sure they have been secured. Consider
installing exterior lighting around your home. Make sure that your home
is fully secured before you go to sleep and items, such as ladders, have
been stored inside. Prepare a plan to vacate your home in case of any
emergency. This should include but is not limited to a fire. Have a plan
if an intruder tries or gets into your home.
- Make your children part of
securing your home. If you have installed an alarm system,
demonstrate it to your children and show them how to make certain that
doors and windows are locked. This will not only help calm their fears
but will also help make them part of your safety plan at home.
- Have a list of family members
who could be contacted in case of an emergency. Designate
a family member or close associate who would be able to fill the role
of advisor in case of an emergency.
- Be alert to and aware of your
surroundings. Know the escape routes and plan
what you would do in different emergencies. Practice what if
scenarios, so you will be well prepared. Know the location of local hospitals
and best routes to take to reach them. Know how to reach the nearest local
lawenforcement agency or sub-station.
- Know your employees and coworkers.
Do background screening and reference checks on everyone
who works at your home, particularly those individuals who care for your
children. Their knowledge of your family is extensive so make sure that
you have an equivalent understanding of who they are.
- Consider varying your daily
routines and habits. Do not take the same routes or go at
the same time on your regular errands. If you take your children to school,
change that route as well.
- Take steps to secure personal information
about yourself. Consider getting a post office
box and registering everything you can there including your vehicles and
drivers licenses Have personal bills sent to your place of work
or the post office box. Be discreet about your possessions and familys
personal habits and information.
- Report any suspicious persons or activities
to law enforcement. If you feel that you
or your children have been targeted or are being stalked, report this
information to law-enforcement authorities immediately. Do not wait.
- Remember that you are your best resource
for better safeguarding your
family. Do not become complacent about personal
security issues.
1 Kenneth A. Hanfland, Robert D. Keppel,
and Joseph G. Weis. Case Management for Missing Children Homicide Investigation:
Executive Summary. Olympia, Washington: Office of the Attorney General State
of Washington and US Department of Justices Office of Juvenile Justice
and Delinquency Prevention, May
1997, page iv.
Tips reprinted from Known the Rules: Abduction and Kidnapping
Prevention Tips for Parents and National
Center For Missing & Exploited Children; The Front Line; Winter 2002/2003,
Volume XXXXVIII. |
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