A Parent's Guide To Gangs
American cities have been plagued by youth gangs since the
late 1700's. Until recently, it was always the "other" cities
that had gangs. Unfortunately, this attitude has allowed gangs to grow to
epidemic proportions and become entrenched in our communities, requiring
a large dedication of money and personnel to be directed toward the problems.
When gang activity is occurring in a city, the entire city is the victim.
Not only is it a waste of one of the most precious resources that we have
- our children - it also drains the community resources that could be directed
to improving the quality of life, not just protecting it. Fort Worth is
currently finding itself as such a victim. But, with community involvement,
parental awareness and commitment to prevention, Fort Worth can make a difference
for our children, and for ourselves.
What gang members do isn't kid stuff, and it's not a harmless phase that
they are going through. Gang members steal and destroy property and commit
many violent crimes. As parents, we need to know why our children are joining
gangs, and the warnings signs that may indicate gang membership.
So Why Do Kids Join Gangs?
because they have low self-esteem because they have a
lack of identity
because they have a need to feel important
because they are seeking companionship or a sense of belonging
because they are looking for security
because they lack other positive alternative activities, like sports
because they lack parental involvement
because they succumb to peer pressure
So What Are The Signals That May Indicate
Gang Membership?
a change in the style of clothing worn or wearing one
particular color often
withdrawing from the family
declining grades and poor school attendance
unexplained money or new possessions
tattoos that are affiliated with a gang or group
use of nicknames
graffiti on their personal things or on their clothing
contacts with the police
Remember, just because someone is on the threshold of joining
a gang, or is aready in a gang, doesn't mean that it is too late to establish
positive alternatives!
So What Can We Do?
establish non-negotiable rules for your family regarding
the use of alcohol, drugs, and gang membership
establish clear guidelines and limits for your children's behavior and
their activities
spend time with your children; do things with them and attend functions
in which they are involved
respect your children's feelings and attitudes; help them to develop a
strong sense of self-esteem
if you are unsure or are in a family crises, then seek help from a local
agency
get to know your children's friends and acquaintances
become involved in your child's school; meet with the counselors and teachers
educate yourself as much as you can about gangs and drugs
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